7 Signs of Emotional Cheating!!!

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It started out innocently enough. Angela and Mike, both married, met during their kids’ weekly soccer games. At first the conversation revolved around their children, but as the two grew closer, the topic at hand changed from parenting to personal life. They met frequently outside of the games to catch a movie or walk on the beach. They talked about their dreams, passions and even the problems in their marriages. Angela lied to her husband about her whereabouts, but eventually he figured out how much time she was really spending with Mike…

“You’re having an affair!” he shouted when he confronted her.

“No I’m not,” she replied. “He never touched me!”

Being unfaithful, they said, goes beyond physical contact. A close friendship with the opposite sex, in which an intense and secretive emotional bond is formed, counts as cheating, too.

7 Signs of EMOTIONAL Cheating!

1. Not “Just Friends”-“If you’re consistently going to your friend for the emotional nourishment that you’re not getting from your husband, there’s a good chance you’re having an emotional affair.”

2. It’s Just a Little Crush– New guy at the office, looking is not a crime right??? Right only if you don’t: Think about him when you’re with your spouse, or seriously wonder what it would be like to be in a relationship together.

3. Odd Man Out– Leave your partner to go to a party to “girl talk” or “guy talk”

4. Share the Love– Invite your friend over to meet him, or double-date.

5. Are You or Aren’t You?– When you’re with your “friend”, ask yourself these questions:

– Would I be ashamed if my husband/wife was watching?

– Would I be hurt if my husband/wife acted this way with a female/male friend?

6. Passion Play- to prevent infidelity in the first place, pay close attention to your marriage. Do a date night, have a second honeymoon, get away together.

7. Do You Speak Body Language? Even when you’re silent, your body is sending signals about your mood and inner thoughts.