The saying about sex and women goes something like this: A woman knows within 5 minutes of meeting a man whether or not she would ever have sex with him. Now the approximation of time might not be an exact five minutes but generally speaking, women do have an inclination after a short time as to whether or not the man in front of them is someone they would ever give a taste of the honey pot. This does not include if he later does something that turns her off for eternity.  With that being said, fellas take out your note pads and listen carefully. Here are a few clues to assist you in distinguishing that the woman you are dating does not desire you.

1. She never touches you or initiates affection

If you have been dating this woman for several months let’s say, and she never once has initiated any affection of any kind then brother leave the condoms at home. You are not one of the privileged. When a woman is attracted to you on any level then after some time she will not be able to contain it. It will slip out in spurts of her gently rubbing your face, putting her hand on your knee, or even boldly grabbing your hand and placing it on her body in some way. She will initiate some form of physical contact in some regard if she has even ever thought of letting you get close to the honey pot.

2. No Tongue Action

Everyone is not generally into French kissing or kissing at all for that matter; but for those that are, if she is interested in you sexually then her kisses will reflect that. They will be passionate and indulging. She will not give you pecks regularly as if she is kissing her little brother.

3. She has never tried to give you the feel up test

I’m giving coveted info here guys so pay attention. Some ladies give the “feel test” in your lower regions to determine if you are worthy enough for the honey pot. By worthy I mean that you meet her qualifications girth and length wise. This test is to prevent the possibility that you will be unwilling to satisfy her sexually. Women figure that if you at least have a decent size package then the rest should fall into place sexually. So in essence this test is for future reference. As she may not necessarily sleep with you on the very same night that she performs the test.  Now she can check that off of her list of qualifications.

4. She does not let you fondle her naughty place either

If a woman has any desire of sleeping with you then at some point, she will allow you to test out her regions as well. Again, this may not lead to sexual relations that same day but she at least wants to give you an idea what she is working with as well.  This is a mental tease for her to you and is her attempt at heightening your expectations for your future sexual exploits together.  Tease you a little and get your revved up. Get it? Wink.

5. No sexual innuendos allowed.. AKA Don’t Talk To Me Like That

Usually when two adults have been dating for a while and are approaching the possibility of sex, verbal and or physical sexual innuendos will be thrown between the two.  The guy might make a sexual joke or reference and if she is digging you then she might laugh it off or even throw one back at you in response. If she could not fathom performing any sexual acts with you then her response might be something like a big red stop sign. Even worse is the look of disgust that might appear on her face.

6.  She Never Gives You “The Look”

The look is one of the key clues to determine that she is thinking of you in a sexual way but often one that most men are oblivious to. A woman will stare at you like you are a piece of meat and she is a Lioness in the wild if she desires you. She doesn’t even have to say anything. Her eyes will do the speaking for her. In her mind she is thinking of every little perverted thought that her loins can create. What she would do to you, how she would do it, what she would have you do to her, where you guys should do it at, and imagining how awesome you might feel inside her. The catch is that she probably will not voice those thoughts to you. But her expression and her eyes read  Bel Biv Devoe’s… “ Do Me Baby”. If she never gives you the look then you are very far from approaching the bedroom with her by your side.

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