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If you and your ex still cuddling, sexing and texting why are you going on dates with other people??? You are creating false hope with your past and creating confusion and trust issues for your possible future. . . You can’t start a new chapter in your life if you keep re-reading the old one!

5 Reason you can’t date your ex while you date other people: 

  1. It’s awkward for mutual friends. Don’t mix your friends in your drama. It makes things awkward. You can’t erase the past. When you show up together- but not together you make the atmosphere uncomfortable.
  2. You might compare your ex with your new love. Because you are used to your ex’s interest and you what they like, you may find yourself trying to get your new love to do the same. Also, you’re friendship with your ex may cause you to have confusion with your new love especially if things between you aren’t going good at the time.
  3. Too many mixed signals. You can’t start fresh no matter how much you want to. Too much history, too many nicknames and there’s too many inside jokes. Once you’ve seen each other naked, you will always see each other naked. Plus Old dating patterns are more likely to start up if you both are still spending time together.
  4. It’s not healthy. There will always be one side of bitterness. You can’t confide in each other. You can’t talk about your personal lives without the conversation feeling awkward. Jealously will start to come into play. As much as you both may say you don’t care for one another, the reality is you both don’t want to see each other with other people.
  5. Finding true love is harder. No one wants to share. Even if you are “just friends” for the moment, the sexual chemistry between you two still exists. As much as you would like to think you can, you can’t really always control the situation.  Not to mention, you’re new partner will never be able to trust you with your ex and most likely will not accept you two remaining friends if you two get in a relationship.

What are your thoughts?

 

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