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R&B Singer Chilli is featured in this month’s issue of Sister 2 Sister Magazine. Inside she speaks on Pre-nups, holding out on sex while dating and her son Tron. Here are a few excerpts:
Chilli On Pre-nups
I have to be with somebody who is definitely down with a pre-nup. I don’t care how much money you have or don’t have; pre-nups are not for wealthy people, they’re for everybody. I’m telling you, it’s like insurance: you hope you don’t need it. Now, if you never have a divorce, you never have to deal with that. But if you do, when people go through divorces, unfortunately, it brings out the ugly in everybody… And then you want to go and suck somebody dry, whether it’s a big bank account or small.
Chilli on making a guy wait for sex
When you date a person, the whole point of dating is to get to know that person. You getting to know each other is not having sex. [laughs] because when you do that it brings on too much unnecessary stuff that shouldn’t be there yet. You don’t even know this person. If you give yourself some time to know how you guys interact on a friendship level, 9 times out of 10, you will find that you don’t even want to be with that person and they don’t want to be with you. When you have sex early, especially for a woman, it causes you to cling and you think you like this person. No, you really don’t like him; it’s just that you slept with him.
Chilli on her son Tron
I was 26 when I had Tron. I was a grown woman and everybody in my family was happy for me because I wanted a baby. I definitely think people should wait until they are married to have kids. And make sure it’s a healthy relationship because the best thing you can give your kids is a healthy relationship between their mom and dad. But if it’s not healthy, don’t do it cause your not doing them any good by staying together for the sake of the kids.
Hate to say it but Chilli has good advice on relationships & dating. Pre-nups is a must in this day and age. I wish someone would walk away with everything I worked so hard to get…
You can check out the rest of the interview in Sister 2 Sister, on news stands now.
