Twenty signs your one night stand is turning into a relationship.

2. You text them “What R U Doing?” and you actually just mean “What are you doing?”

3. They text you before 8 p.m.

4. They ask how your presentation/test/interview/trial went.

5. You know anything at all about what happened in their life between hookups.

6. They call you. On the phone.

7. You post a link to their Facebook wall.

8. They post something to your Facebook wall and you don’t fly into a panic and delete it immediately before anyone sees.

9. You allow yourself to be photographed with them.

10. They spend the night, you both sleep in and get brunch the next day.

11. The two of you are hanging out. Sober. Not hungover.

12. You kiss as a greeting (not just as a pathway to sex or out of obligation in the morning).

13. They know your middle name.

14. You “have a relationship” with their pets(s).

15. You’ve, of course, never met their parents… but you do know what they do for a living.

16. They text you “Thinking of you,” and there’s not a dirty picture attached.

17. They invite you out to the bar with their friends before they’re ready to leave.

18. You don’t have a drawer or anything, but you’ve left some article of clothing at their house and you kind of like that it’s there.

19. They loaned you a book. (You don’t loan a booty call a book.)