Sure, we all have little things we get insecure about in bed. But apparently guys are so happy that they’re getting laid, they never notice our so-called problem areas. Experts swear these don’t even register with them.
Your Extra Lbs
According to sex expert Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First most guys aren’t seeing—or thinking—straight during sex because they’re too busy being overtaken by a neurochemical cocktail—a mix of the love hormone oxytocin, testosterone, and the pleasure neurotransmitter dopamine—and your inherent sexiness. So, if you’re worried about your fupa or the fact that your thighs touch—don’t.
Your Breast Shape
Trust us: Only you notice that your left tata is slightly larger than your right. Most men are just excited to be in close proximity to your girls, Kerner says—they could care less what size they are, or even if they are two different sizes.
Sure, we all want perfect, smooth skin, but really—how often does that happen? A last-minute scramble to cover up imperfections is pretty much in vain, says sex expert Darren Michaels, author of Flipside Erotica. Don’t worry if you have a breakout on your back or a few zits on your butt. Your guy will be so busy grabbing it, he won’t notice.
While they might seem gross to you, your natural odor and sweat can be a huge turn-on to guys, Kerner says. So, unless you haven’t showered in days, don’t worry if you’re getting a little overheated. That’s kinda the point, right?
So, you didn’t have time to shave your legs, armpits or your bikini area pre-sex? Kerner says that if you have a little stubble, a guy is certainly not going to get bent out of shape over it… or even notice.
Your Weave/Lacefront/Wig and Makeup
Guys won’t know whether your hair is up or down, or whether you’re wearing makeup or not during sex, so don’t stress it. In fact, Kerner warns that worrying about how you look during sex will screw with your ability to get lost in the sensations. And that’s definitely no good. So, do what makes you feel confident, but there’s no need to go overboard. But let it be known that if you looking like the chick below we won’t make it no where close to a bedroom. lol
Most guys won’t be calculating how your vagina compares to previous partners, Kerner says. While kegel exercises never hurt, there’s no need to stress about your tightness. You’re going to feel pretty damn good, no matter what.