Sure, we all have little things we get insecure about in bed. But apparently guys are so happy that they’re getting laid, they never notice our so-called problem areas. Experts swear these don’t even register with them.
Your Extra Lbs
According to sex expert Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First most guys aren’t seeing—or thinking—straight during sex because they’re too busy being overtaken by a neurochemical cocktail—a mix of the love hormone oxytocin, testosterone, and the pleasure neurotransmitter dopamine—and your inherent sexiness. So, if you’re worried about your fupa or the fact that your thighs touch—don’t.
Your Breast Shape
Trust us: Only you notice that your left tata is slightly larger than your right. Most men are just excited to be in close proximity to your girls, Kerner says—they could care less what size they are, or even if they are two different sizes.
Sure, we all want perfect, smooth skin, but really—how often does that happen? A last-minute scramble to cover up imperfections is pretty much in vain, says sex expert Darren Michaels, author of Flipside Erotica. Don’t worry if you have a breakout on your back or a few zits on your butt. Your guy will be so busy grabbing it, he won’t notice.
While they might seem gross to you, your natural odor and sweat can be a huge turn-on to guys, Kerner says. So, unless you haven’t showered in days, don’t worry if you’re getting a little overheated. That’s kinda the point, right?